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 Dermatillomania or Skin Picking

Find out moreCompulsive Skin Picking is known to the medical profession as dermatillomania, and may also be referred to as CSP, derm or DMT.

People with Dermatillomania are affectionately known on the web as "Picksters". Those who have succeeded in becoming long-term pull free are PickSTARS. The key characteristic of dermatillomania is the compulsive urge to skin pick, which is often stress relieving rather than painful.
Skin-picking urges are often experienced as itching, which seems to be relieved by picking. People with dermatillomania feel that their skin picking, or lip picking is beyond their control and that feeling of being out of control can stretch to all areas of their life, including nail biting and even hair pulling.

Skin pickers often suffer from Body Dysmorphic Disorder and believe that picking may help them to look more “normal”. Like all impulse control disorders, dermatillomania is compulsive and very difficult to stop.

Pick free IS possible, though, and has been achieved long-term, by many on our entirely online PickFree therapy program, with the help of our expert counselors who all have personal experience of the disorder.

Current research reveals that dermatillomania is probably in our DNA, represented as a general behavioral disorder which means we have difficulty controlling our impulses in general. Many people with dermatillomania, for instance, have an alcoholic parent or a parent with other behavioral problems.

A person with dermatillomania may also have another impulse control disorder, such as an eating disorder, alcoholism, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder or obsessive relationship syndrome and most also have Social Phobic Anxiety Disorder.

Skin pickers often become obsessive with their make-up or wash routines, and many researchers now believe that the gene responsible for OCD is also inherent in dermatillomania sufferers.

Many people with dermatillomania also experience problems sleeping

What should you do about your skin picking? Talk about it as much as possible, separate yourself from the skin picking and accept that it is a disorder, not something to be ashamed of.

You are ashamed BECAUSE you have this disorder, and a symptom of the disorder is shame. You have no real reason to be ashamed of yourself, it’s just a faulty brain pattern.

It is believed that people with impulse control disorder have problems stabilizing their serotonin (the happy hormone) and therefore may be depressed.

Medication for skin-picking is usually serotonin re-uptake medication or SSRIs, which are anti-depressants.

Despite having worked with many dermatillomania sufferers, I have never met one who was helped long-term by medication.

Far more effective, are the following therapy methods: · habit reversal · hypnotherapy · cognitive behavioral therapy · Transactional Analysis · Or Picknotherapy, which incorporates all of the above and is conducted entirely online. Dr Neomie Da Costa B.Msc.D.



 
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Re: Dermatillomania or Skin Picking (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Wednesday, May 12 @ 16:49:56 BST
Hello, my friend and I have been looking at your web site and share a similar problem. We love to pick our lips, the problem is we don't want to stop. It is best when we draw blood and it is a sub conscious habit that we have developed at an early age. Will there be any long term problems or damage that we may incur? How should we even begin to give up when we don't want to? It can be embarrassing when the urge to pick is in public and people notice and tell us to stop. Both of us are urged by family members to give up, but we find this impossible and have developed strategies to conceal the picking from them, for example placing our hand over our mouth in a relaxed way, but still frantically picking beneath. I want to reiterate that this is completely true and find it odd that we both pick in exactly the same way, using teeth or nails to physically rip the skin from the inside of our mouths, and we both get the same pleasure from it. Sometimes this can be so relaxing for us that we dribble without realising it. Please give us advice or reassure us we can continue with no long term harmful affects.

Please respond, many thanks

Stephanie and Vicky


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Re: Dermatillomania or Skin Picking (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Monday, August 23 @ 17:58:10 BST
I just read Stephanie and Vicky's comment, and about cried. I am EXACTLY the same way, but I've never met anyone else who did it too( or they were very good at hiding it) My husband has tried to discourage me by slapping my hand away from my mouth or telling me it looks like a "herpe" but I can't stop. I've been doing it since I can remember and it makes me feel so good! Especially after eating, it's almost like having a relaxing cigarette( although I don't smoke)
Please anyone that shares in this e-mail me at calebsmom12@yahoo.com. By the way, my name is Vicky also!


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cuticle picking (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Sunday, August 29 @ 17:17:41 BST
It was only recently that i've discovered that other people are like me and pick compulsively at their skin. I am really happy to know that I am not alone in this world and not totally uncommon. I pick mainly at my fingernail cuticles and and my lips, but sometimes at my pimples and other peeling parts of my body. I was just wondering if there's anyone else out there who picks mostly at their cuticles. Sometimes I am really afraid that one day my nails will totally fall out. I would appreciate it if someone who is like me responded.

Also, good luck to all my fellow skin pickers. Hopefully we can get through this!


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Re: Dermatillomania or Skin Picking (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Wednesday, September 29 @ 04:30:06 BST
Yeah... I have been picking at my self for about 5 years now. Usually on my arms and shoulders but a lot on my face too. I want to stop but it really does bring comfort to me. My parents and people try and get me to stop but I enjoy doing it... I mean I usually feel depressed after a really intense picking but picking makes me feel good. I don't understand it and probably never will. I just hope all of the scars fade...


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I can't even beleive i found this site (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Wednesday, October 13 @ 04:45:20 BST
this must be new. i go through bouts wher ei am super bad with my cuticle picking, but then i can be good for a while. but dry skin does mae is worse and winter is coming so it is getting bad again. it is so bad and so gross it hurts to wash my hands or wash my hair. i bleed all the time and leave blood on papers at work. i pick so much that when i get up from my seat sometime si see skin all over my lap. sometimes i can pick my fingertips all the way to toe first knuckle crease. and all the way under the nail.

i am just amazed by what i am reading here. i always notice when othe rpeople pick, but i have NEVER seen even CLOSE to what i do to me - and i can see fromthis site that many people are like me!!! I actually do pick my lips, especially in the winter - but not nearly as bad as my hands. and i do not bite my nails.

i was treated with an SSRI but i gained weight. i am not really overweight, but i am pushin git and it is hard enough for me to maintain this weight without the side effect of an SSRI.

are there any other drug treatments? i took an anti anxiety drug (xanax) for a while but when i moved i got a new doctor that wouldnt perscribe it. it was perfect, thoguh - becuase i took it when i needed it - not ALWAYSlike the SSRI.

any suggestions>?


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Re: Dermatillomania or Skin Picking (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Friday, October 15 @ 06:02:02 BST
I have been picking my scabs, including ones I create, for years. I pick mainly in my scalp...does anyone else do this? I thought I was a freak...I want to stop. but dont know how. i hate being labeled...I was once told i have borderline personality disorder or ocd, i think i am just stressed out and experiencing anxiety...I am 40..when is this going to stop?


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Re: Dermatillomania or Skin Picking (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Thursday, October 21 @ 19:58:47 BST
I have suffered from Dermatillomania for at least 40 years but never knew there was a name for it or other people who suffered from it until recently. It is interesting to me that my father and sister have the same problem, my son has trichotillomania (hair pulling) and my daughter once had a problem with cutting. This obviously makes me think there is something genetic about it. I just found your website today but I do plan to mark it and come back again.


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Re: Dermatillomania or Skin Picking (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Monday, October 25 @ 22:57:50 BST
Thank god I'm not alone in lip-picking. I honestly thought I was the only person who does this and have never told anyone about it. I've been doing it to myself for 14 years or so and it's so embarrassing! Reading the main comment struck a few chords - my Dad is an alchoholic and my Mum has depression/anxiety and is generally not right in the head. My older sister has a strange obsession with biting sponges because she finds it comforting, same as I do with picking my lips.

I was wondering - should I get some hypnotherapy or just see a shrink to get it cured? That SSRI thing sounds pretty hellish if it makes you put weight on. I've got enough on my plate already (no pun intended)

Thanks

Christina


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Re: Dermatillomania or Skin Picking (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Wednesday, November 24 @ 00:07:02 GMT
Hello. I was recently doing a report in which I had to choose a mental illness and write about it, and decided to write about OCD. Imagine my surprise when in the process, I discovered information about picking and realized it describes me to a T!

What I need to know is if some sort of oral fixation is known to be a part of picking. Ever since I was a child, I haven't just picked, I am also usually compelled to transfer whatever I have picked to my mouth, such as a scab, or, if I pull out a hair, I study it to see if the root is attached and if so, I bite off the root. God--it sounds disgusting and I can hardly bring myself to write about it even here.

Is this a part of the disorder, or is it a separate disorder? Because this is the part I have had a hard time telling my doctors about, which means I usually don't describe the extent of my picking to them because it sounds so gross.



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Re: Dermatillomania or Skin Picking (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Tuesday, December 14 @ 03:43:17 GMT
Wow. How unbelievable that I've stumbled upon this site.

I've been picking the skin on my thumbs (above the joints) since I first absent-mindedly picked my right thumb during a children's choir presentation in church when I was eight. I was so nervous.

Since that time, I've picked my thumbs raw on a weekly basis. The skin always heals and I always pick it away. I often make the skin bleed and my thumbs look horrible. I am embarrassed when people ask me what's wrong with my thumbs. In my adulthood, my picking has gone from my thumbs to the cuticles on my fingers and toes and to the cracked skin on my feet.

My problem is so severe that my 13-year old daughter cries, hides from me, and covers her ears to avoid seeing/hearing me do this. It truly is mostly subconcious on my part.

The more emotional I am--whether I am nervous, bored, excited, lonely, etc.--I pick. I am in my 40s and hate for my daughter's sake that I still do this.

A few years ago, I finally admitted to a pyschologist what I do and he said that he hadn't heard of anyone doing this but that he had heard of people biting the insides of their mouths and mutilating themselves in other ways. Inside my heart, I just knew that my affliction had to be shared by other human beings. Surely, I wasn't the only one. Now, tonight, for the first time I know that I'm not.


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Re: Do you use foundation to cover up the marks? (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Tuesday, December 21 @ 11:48:32 GMT
I am 42 years of age and live in Australia. for the past ten years I have found myself picking at my arms like I am mental or something. I just can't wait until nightime when I lay in my bed and pick at the newly formed skin over my sores. I am so embarrassed as during the daytime you can see marks upon my skin. I have a hectic life with a bastard husband who continually picks on me and I have no idean if this is the connection why I have turned into a scab picker??? Please someone tell me what is happening!


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Re: Dermatillomania or Skin Picking (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Wednesday, December 29 @ 16:25:08 GMT
I pick on EVERYTHING...all parts of my body. I'm so relieved I found this website b/c now I know I'm not alone:) During my picking I dont even care how the scar looks...I have this obsession w/ it feeling smooth. I will pick every scab on my body at least once a day....sometimes more. I really want to stop b/c I feel ashamed about it. However I get this gratifying feeling when the picking is completed.


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Re: Dermatillomania or Skin Picking (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Wednesday, January 12 @ 14:36:09 GMT
Ok, posting a message is something I have done maybe once, and that was on a cat website. Here we go, I too chew the insides of my mouth. If there is a bump on my tongue, I will chew it until it bleeds and I cant hardly talk. I was so young that I don't remember when I started peeling my fingernails and picking at my cuticles. How gross, but as a small child, when I still had my baby teeth, I would peel my fingernails then push them between my front teeth and gums. They would get stuck there. So, when my permanent teeth came in, they pushed the fingernails out with them. My Mom took me to the dentist. He said they were roots, but I told them they were fingernails. Later, I moved on to my toenails and any dry skin on my feet. I am so weird that I actually look forward to sitting down and watching TV so I can pick my toenails. I make them bleed and hurt when I walk. I get mad at myself when I do it, but look forward to when they grow back. If there is some tiny part I can get hold of, I tear it right off. I really pick at pimples. I even pick at my husband's blackheads. I stopped peeling my fingernails when I was 21 after a traumatic relationship breakup. But, the urge is always there. I started getting the acrylic overlays on my nails to help deter myself. Nope, I can peel a set of acrylic nails off in no time. Yep, 30 bucks a set. Then, I am miserable because my nails under them are so thin and weak from having them done. I am 33 years old. I have fought with this my whole life. My family says, just stop. Yeah, if it were a light switch. But, it's not! I am taking Zoloft. I started taking that after losing a close family member to death. I thought I was the only one who was like this. Thank you to all who have posted. I feel just being able to admit it even in writing helps me face it. I am blessed with a wonderful husband. He doesnt berate me. Especially when he realized that he picks scabs. Thanks to all, have a blessed day. I can understand how a smoker feels. The urge never goes away.


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Re: Dermatillomania or Skin Picking (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Wednesday, January 19 @ 09:05:42 GMT
I am 26 year old male and I am beginning to believe how good looking I might be, I am totally non egotistical, but I wish I didn't pick so much everywhere all the time.... I could be the goodlooking person in my mind through to the mirror, if that makes any sense.. I definatly go through many phases with different areas of my body, I try to leave the face alone but I have kinda bad skin anyhow. Now I have psoriasis, yay, I think picking and stress brought it out, I have triamcinalone but it is hard to fully get rid of psoriasis in my condition. Sometimes I truely feel Leperish sometimes I try not to care, I do think about the whole situation a lot though... I have tried paxil, zoloft, effexor, xanax, valium, tranxene, klonopin.... I hate them all and none of it works it makes everything worse... I haven't tried psychiatry yet but I definatly know I should. I have many issues in my mind but I am very hesitant to make starts for help, sometimes I cant even choose something to eat.... I get stuck trying to choose between 2 things......thanks for letting me write this, Jeremy 05


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Re: New to this forum. (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Saturday, February 19 @ 16:42:18 GMT
Feb 19, 2005
I have been reading some of the posts, and they are all pretty old. I would like to hear more about people's motivations for picking.

My doctor seems to think it is similar to "cutting" as in a release, but I don't feel that way. I certainly identify more with the need to tear away at any patches of skin that are raised or not smooth. And the more I pick at a scab, the more raised it gets. When I cut myself shaving, I curse it because I know it will be yet another scab that I need to feel and tear open every day. I started to use those "gel" band-aids and they work great, except that I scratch around them causing even more torn skin. At this point my legs are disgusting, my back is scarred and I am getting to the point where I can't even wear a short sleeved shirt.

I take an SSRI and it doesnt seem to help. I tried to keep a journal to identify what "motivates" me to pick and it turns out that I do it at any time, any place, stressed or relaxed, distracted or focused. I can't stop and it's making me crazy. The latest chapter is that my skin has started to itch. Everywhere. My scars/scabs itch, but so do ransdom places. And hte itch is so bad that no amount of scratching helps. I have to focus really hard to avoid making myself bleed some more.

I want to be fixed. This is not a sob story. A lot of the sites I have found feature people who whine and tel their sad stories but seem to feel a lot of self-pity. I want advice. I have no insurance so therapy isnt really an option right now. If anyone has found any help I'd like to know.


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Re: Dermatillomania or Skin Picking (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Thursday, February 24 @ 16:46:15 GMT
are we all out of our minds? i mean skin picking as a compulsion could it really be that im not a freak but something in my brian isnt right? im making a dr appt now i have scarred myself for 15 years now and just thought i was high strung or whatever i never thought they had a name for this im not sure how to feel


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Re: Dermatillomania or Skin Picking (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Saturday, February 26 @ 03:15:12 GMT
Wow....I just stumbled on this site and I can't believe how much it describes me. I'm in National Guard and for almost a year now they have called it so many different things and it had kept me from going to basic training. I though that it was only me and that it wa gross. I to am a picker and eater. No idea why, parents have no problems either. Should i see a doctor and ask them about it and ask about Guard duty and stuff? Oh, and btw, i am definately book marking this site. Very good knowledge.


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Re: Dermatillomania or Skin Picking (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Thursday, March 17 @ 23:44:06 GMT
I never knew that other people were like me. I have struggled with "nervous habits"like this for years. I started twisted my hair when I was 7 and went from there to "hair pulling". Then I was a cheek biter for a long time, but TMJ made me quit that. About 3 years ago, I started picking at the "bumps" on my arms. They are caused by some skin condition, don't remember the name. They really aren't very big and wouldn't be a big deal if I didn't pick at them all of the time. I can't stop picking until they bleed and I am hurting. My husband will walk in and there will be little blood dots all over the sheets where I have been picking at myself---arms, shoulders, legs, stomach, scalp. My doctor has noticed and I just make stuff up---fleas, allergies, etc. I recently was doing much better b/c I was exercising. I haven't exercised lately because it has been warm and I haven't wanted to work out in a short sleeve shirt due to the horrible scars all over my arms. My arms look like a burn victim's with all of the little scars and scabs. I have literally zoned out and then "woken" up and been bleeding. It's awful when I'm done, but I can't stop while I am doing it. I don't really know where to begin to get treatment. I have been doing this or something like it for over 25 years. Email with info--I really want some help

Cynnbadd@aol.com


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finger picking and fingernail ridges (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Saturday, April 09 @ 07:27:26 BST
I have been picking the skin around my fingers for over 10 years...to the same extent that others have described on this site. my question is about fingernails though....for about the past 3 years my fingernails have bee severely ridged...the most deformed ones are my thumbnails (which are the fingers that get picked the worst) and my index fingers...(which get picked when my thumbs are too raw). my friends tell me they must be related....but i asked a doctor friend of mine once and she didnt seem to think so. does anyone else here have vertically and/or horizontally (i have both) ridged/dented fingernails?


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Dermatillomania (Score: 0)
by Anonymous on Sunday, April 24 @ 08:56:34 BST
I've been picking for over 5 years now. It started with my face (I had bad acne as a teen, and got teased for it *a lot*), but have since migrated to my breasts. I don't understand why. Or, at least, I didn't. I would do this and wonder why, when people would compliment me, I would do this.

I go through fazes with it. Sometimes, I will only pick a little, and let what's damaged heal, almost to the point that the only thing left is the scars. But then, something will happen, and I will look like I do now. I look like I have the chicken pox. And it feels so good at the time, I can't stop. I will squeeze every pore, and push the infected areas until they bleed. I always thought it was because I was once told that popping pimples "lets the poison out", but now I see that it's a neurological imbalance.

I hate that I do this. It makes me feel revolting. When I'm with a man, I tell him that I have a skin condition, and that it just happens. But I feel like I should be able to control this.

I've recently started taking EffexorXR. Oddly, I found that the picking got a bit worse once I started that, but my mood is so improved that I don't want to stop taking them. I haven't talked to a doctor about this yet (I'm between doctors at the moment). But I will. I have to. Even the scarring makes me feel disfigured. And the worst part is that the burning I feel after, once it starts to hurt, makes me want to do it more.

Sorry to vent. It's just a lot of relief to know that other people are going through this, and that there is ways to treat it.

Thank you all!

Sparky


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