Live for NOW
Posted on Thursday, October 16 @ 17:51:12 BST by Neomie |
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If you’re in a relationship, and everything’s gone tits-up in your past relationships, it can be easy to fear closeness and expect the worst.
It is natural to feel afraid that around the next corner is Heartbreak Hotel … but remember that your beliefs can create your reality. It is possible to bring something good to an end just by thinking negatively.
If you’re lucky enough to be with someone who loves you, stop worrying whether you deserve such a partner and just enjoy it for what it is … yours NOW.
Try not to sabotage success in relationships, because bonding is not so scary if you stop trying to evaluate your own worth.
Nobody can accurately evaluate their own worth. Humanity is made equal, therefore you completely deserve your partner, because you are equal in every way.
Maybe romance doesn’t burn like that first-flush forever, but it is possible to work at it, with small surprises and mushy massages every now and then. Set aside one day a week when you’ll pamper your lover … but don’t tell them about it – keep it as your little secret.
Spontaneity is sensual, of course, but in this busy world, sometimes we have to MAKE time to make love.
For one night, appreciate your lover lying next to you … there won’t be infinite numbers of nights like this. One day, most relationships end, either through choice or through disaster … don’t worry about the worst happening. The worst WILL happen … one of you will die someday. Enjoy this moment. Live for the now.
Next time you have to go visit the in-laws, try not to get too worried about it. Remember, instead, that if something happened tomorrow to end this relationship, you’d give anything to have back that moment of visiting the in-laws in unison.
At least once a month, fill the bedroom with candles and say “I dedicate this light to our love. Let love GROW”. Witches say pink is the best colour for candles to attract and increase love.
And finally, my best tip ever …. try having sex every day, and see how much closer it brings you together. I’ve always found this to be a real recipe for romance.
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